Gene Hackman is one of few contemporary actors I really, really enjoy watching, especially when he is being his particular brand of funny or quirky. I recently watched two of his earlier films, The French Connection and I Never Sang for My Father. Two very different films where he displays two very different types of characters.
Then there is Gene in I Never Sang for My Father, a riveting film about a son struggling for his father's affection. This movie also featured an elderly but no less powerful Melvyn Douglas playing the father. The movie opens with a thought provoking message about how death ends a life but does not end a relationship. Told in retrospect, Gene Garrison (Hackman) recalls the days leading up to and immediately after his mother's death. In short order we learn the complex relationship he has with his parents, especially his father, and how that has affected him as a man. Douglas plays his part superbly as the father who has accomplished great things only to be forgotten in his old age by most and now is truly dependent upon his son to take care of him. However, Gene wants his father to depend on him out of love, not fear. Love he has been trying to earn all his life. He yearns to get away to California and marry the woman he loves, and to start a new life. Though he cannot leave his father in the hands of the state and though he offers his father to come to California with him, his father remains stubborn and indignant. He believes he has earned the right to stay where he pleases and to have his son care for him.

















































